Evolution Counselling and Wellness

Got questions about therapy, how it works, or what it costs? You’re not alone.

We’ve created this FAQ to answer the most common concerns we hear, whether you’re curious about what happens in a session, wondering if your insurance covers it, or trying to figure out where to begin. Questions are organized by topic so you can find what you need quickly.

If your question isn’t answered here, feel free to reach out or book a free 15-minute clarity call. No pressure, no obligation.

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Getting Started

New Here? Start With These

What is the first step to working with you?

The first step is booking a free 15-minute clarity call. This is a short, no-pressure conversation where you can share what is going on, ask any questions you have, and get a sense of whether this feels like the right fit. There is no obligation to continue after the call.

Do I need to know exactly what is wrong before I reach out?

No. Many people reach out feeling unclear, overwhelmed, or unsure how to put words to what they are experiencing. That is a completely normal starting point. Part of the work is helping you make sense of what is happening. You do not need to have it figured out before your first session.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

If you have been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, emotionally flat, constantly stressed, or like something is not right but you cannot explain it. Therapy is worth exploring. You do not need to be in crisis to benefit. Many people start because they want to get ahead of a pattern before it gets worse, not because they have hit a breaking point.

What is the difference between counselling and wellness services?

Counselling is a regulated mental health service that addresses psychological, emotional, and relational challenges such as trauma, anxiety, depression, anger, and relationship difficulties. Wellness services are non-therapy services that focus on the physical systems that influence mental health, including energy, digestion, sleep, stress physiology, and nutrition. Both can be used independently or together.

Are services available in person?

All sessions are conducted virtually using secure video platforms. This makes it easier for clients across Newfoundland and Labrador and Ontario to access consistent care without travel or scheduling barriers.

Can I book if I am not sure which service I need?

Yes. The free clarity call is specifically designed to help you figure that out. You do not need to have chosen a service before reaching out.

About the Therapist

Who You’ll Be Working With

Who is Lance Jackson?

Lance Jackson is a Registered Social Worker (MSW, RSW) and Certified Nutritional Practitioner (CNP) with over 30 years of experience in social work and mental health. He provides virtual counselling for individuals and couples in Newfoundland and Labrador and Ontario, with a primary focus on men’s mental health. He is also a registered NIHB provider with Qalipu First Nations and Nunatsiavut Government.

What are Lance’s credentials and training?

Lance holds a Master of Social Work (MSW) and is a Registered Social Worker (RSW) in both Newfoundland and Labrador and Ontario. He also holds a Diploma in Applied Holistic Nutrition and the Certified Nutritional Practitioner (CNP) designation. His clinical training includes:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Trauma-Focused CBT
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
  • Gottman Method (couples)
  • Polyvagal Theory and Mindfulness-Based approaches
Does Lance have personal experience with what he works on?

Yes. Lance grew up in poverty in a home shaped by addiction and mental health challenges. He understands what it means to carry responsibility at a young age, to push through difficult environments, and to not have space to talk about it. That lived experience directly informs his understanding of men’s mental health, trauma, and what it takes to reach out for support. He also has personal experience as a volunteer firefighter, which shapes his work with first responders.

Why does Lance focus on men’s mental health?

Through years of clinical work, Lance observed that men frequently carry significant emotional weight including stress, trauma, anger, and burnout, without adequate access to support that feels relevant or safe to them. His approach is built to meet men where they are: practical, direct, non-judgmental, and grounded in real-world strategies rather than generic talk therapy.

Is Lance the only practitioner at Evolution Counselling and Wellness?

Yes. This is a solo practice. You will always work directly with Lance, not an associate or intake coordinator.

Counselling Services

How Counselling Works

What issues do you help with in counselling?

Counselling services address trauma and PTSD, anxiety and depression, men’s mental health, relationship and couples challenges, first responder and public safety stress, anger management, emotional disconnection, burnout, grief, life transitions, and general mental health concerns.

What therapy approaches do you use?

The practice uses a combination of evidence-based approaches tailored to each individual, including:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
  • Gottman Method (for couples)
  • Polyvagal-informed nervous system work
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Mindfulness-Based and Strength-Based approaches

Nutrition-informed and lifestyle perspectives are also integrated where relevant.

Is this therapy or coaching?

This is regulated counselling (therapy) provided within the scope of a Registered Social Worker. It is not coaching. The services are governed by professional regulatory standards in both Newfoundland and Labrador and Ontario.

Where are counselling services available?

Counselling services are available to residents of Newfoundland and Labrador and Ontario. All sessions are conducted virtually. Wellness and nutrition services are available to clients across all Canadian provinces.

How long are sessions, and how many will I need?

Most individual and couples sessions are 50 minutes long. The number of sessions depends on what you are working through and your goals. Some clients benefit from short-term focused work over a few months; others choose longer-term support. There is no fixed number required. You are always in control of the pace and duration.

What can I expect in my first session?

The first session is focused on understanding your background, your current concerns, and what you are hoping to get from the work. You can ask questions about the process, share as much or as little as feels comfortable, and get a sense of whether the approach feels like a good fit. There is no pressure to have everything figured out before you arrive.

Do I have to talk about my past or childhood?

Not necessarily, and never before you are ready. The focus is on what is most relevant to your current life and goals. If past experiences are shaping what you are dealing with today, that will be addressed in a structured, manageable way, not by forcing you to relive things before you feel safe enough to do so.

What if I have tried therapy before and it did not work?

That is a common experience. Not all therapy approaches are the same, and fit matters. If previous therapy felt vague, passive, or disconnected from your real life, a more structured and practical approach may feel quite different. The clarity call is a good way to see whether this feels like a better match.

What is your cancellation and no-show policy?

At least 24 hours notice is required to cancel or reschedule a session. Cancellations made with less than 24 hours notice, or missed appointments, may be charged the full session fee.

How do I book an appointment?

You can book through our website, by phone, or by email. If you are unsure where to start, the free clarity call is the easiest first step. Reach out and we can help you choose the right next step.

Men’s Mental Health

Support Built for Men

Why do you specialize in men’s mental health?

Men frequently face unique barriers to seeking support, including cultural messaging that equates help-seeking with weakness, fewer mental health role models, and a tendency to express distress through anger, withdrawal, or overwork rather than visible emotional struggle. This practice is built specifically for men who want a space that is direct, practical, and free of judgment.

What issues are common in men’s mental health therapy?

Common concerns include chronic stress and burnout, anger and emotional reactivity, anxiety and depression (which often look different in men), trauma and PTSD, relationship difficulties, disconnection from purpose or direction, postpartum challenges for new fathers, and identity questions around fatherhood, retirement, and major life transitions.

How does depression show up differently in men?

Depression in men is frequently missed because it often does not look like sadness. Instead it may appear as irritability, anger, emotional numbness, withdrawal, overworking, increased substance use, or a flat loss of motivation. If you have been feeling consistently off, detached, or like you are just going through the motions, depression may be worth exploring.

Is therapy just talking, or will I get practical tools?

Therapy here is practical and structured. The goal is for you to walk away from sessions with usable strategies you can apply in daily life, including tools for managing stress, regulating emotional reactions, improving communication, or understanding what is driving your patterns. It is not open-ended conversation without direction.

What if I do not know what to say in a session?

That is a completely normal starting point. Many men come into therapy unsure of how to explain what they are experiencing. Part of the work is helping you find the language and framework to understand what is happening. You do not need to arrive with clear answers or the right words. Showing up is enough to begin.

Trauma & PTSD

Understanding Trauma and How It’s Treated

What is the difference between trauma and PTSD?

Trauma refers to your mind and body’s response to an overwhelming or distressing experience. PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) refers to the longer-term impact when those responses persist, intensify, and begin interfering with daily life, through symptoms such as flashbacks, nightmares, hypervigilance, emotional numbness, or avoidance. Not everyone who experiences trauma develops PTSD, but when symptoms continue and disrupt daily functioning, it becomes important to address them.

What is complex trauma (cPTSD)?

Complex trauma, sometimes called cPTSD, typically develops from long-term or repeated experiences rather than a single event, such as chronic abuse, neglect, relational instability, or prolonged exposure to unsafe environments. It often affects identity, emotional regulation, self-perception, and the ability to trust or feel connected to others.

What is generational trauma?

Generational trauma refers to the ways that unresolved pain, stress responses, and survival patterns can be passed through families and communities across generations, often through emotional shutdown, chronic stress, learned avoidance, and cycles of behaviour that reflect pain that was never fully addressed. Healing begins with awareness and support.

Do I have to describe everything that happened in detail?

No. You are always in control of what you share and when. Trauma work is done at a pace that feels safe enough for your nervous system to actually process change. In many cases, early sessions focus on building stability and coping tools before any deeper work begins. Safety comes first.

How long does trauma therapy take?

There is no fixed timeline. Some people begin to notice meaningful relief within a few sessions, particularly as they develop tools to regulate stress and feel more grounded. Deeper trauma work often takes longer, depending on the history and what you want to work through. The pace is effective, not rushed.

Can trauma affect physical health?

Yes. Trauma is not only psychological. It affects the nervous system, stress hormones, sleep, digestion, and immune function. This is one reason why broader lifestyle and physical health factors are considered alongside the therapeutic work.

First Responders & Public Safety

Specialized Support for Public Safety Personnel

Do you specialize in working with first responders?

Yes. Counselling services are available specifically for police officers, firefighters, paramedics, correctional officers, dispatchers, and others in high-stress public safety roles. This work is tailored to the culture, pressure, and cumulative nature of public safety stress, not a generic approach applied to first responders as an afterthought.

What makes therapy for first responders different?

First responders face repeated exposure to trauma, high-stakes decisions, shift work, and a professional culture that often expects composure regardless of what you have witnessed. The impact frequently builds over time through cumulative exposure rather than one identifiable event. Effective support needs to understand that culture and that pattern, not treat every stressor like ordinary workplace stress.

Is counselling confidential for first responders?

Yes. Confidentiality is a core professional and ethical requirement. What you share in sessions stays private, with only the standard legal exceptions that apply to all therapy, specifically situations involving imminent risk of harm to yourself or others, or a court order. This space is entirely separate from your employer or workplace.

What is an Operational Stress Injury (OSI)?

An Operational Stress Injury is a broad term used to describe persistent psychological difficulties that result from service in an operational role. It includes conditions such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, and substance use that develop as a result of exposure to traumatic or high-stress operational events. OSIs are recognized occupational health concerns for first responders and public safety personnel.

What if I have been dealing with this for years without reaching out?

That is extremely common in first responder communities. Many PSPs carry the effects of cumulative stress, trauma exposure, and emotional shutdown for years before reaching out. The length of time does not determine whether change is possible. What matters is what you are ready to address now.

Do I have to talk about specific calls or incidents?

No. You are never required to relive specific events before you are ready. In many cases, the early work focuses on stress regulation, sleep, and emotional control, building enough stability that deeper processing becomes possible without overwhelming your system.

Couples Therapy

Working on Your Relationship Together

Who is couples therapy for?

Couples therapy is for partners experiencing conflict, communication breakdowns, emotional distance, trust issues, or a sense that the relationship is stuck in a pattern that keeps repeating. You do not need to be at a breaking point to begin. Many couples start because they want to strengthen what they have or prevent growing distance from becoming harder to repair.

What approach do you use for couples?

The primary framework is the Gottman Method, which is grounded in decades of relationship research and focuses on building friendship, managing conflict constructively, and creating shared meaning. This is combined with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which addresses the attachment needs underneath conflict, and Cognitive Behavioral approaches to identify the assumptions and reactions that escalate tension.

Will the therapist take sides?

No. The role in couples therapy is to understand both perspectives and help identify the patterns between you, not to assign blame or favour one partner. The focus is on improving the relationship dynamic, not determining who is right.

What if one partner is more motivated than the other?

This is very common and is not a reason to delay starting. Many couples begin with one partner more willing than the other. The work can still create meaningful shifts in the dynamic even when motivation is uneven at the start.

Can couples therapy help after infidelity?

Yes. Rebuilding trust after betrayal is possible, but it requires honesty, structure, and time. Therapy provides a clear, supported process for understanding what happened, addressing the impact on both partners, and deciding, with clarity, how to move forward.

What if we are not sure whether to stay together?

Couples therapy can help with that uncertainty. Sometimes the goal is to rebuild the relationship. Sometimes it is to gain enough clarity to separate in a respectful, less harmful way. Both are valid outcomes of the work.

Anxiety & Depression

Understanding Mood and Anxiety Concerns

What is the difference between anxiety and depression?

Anxiety is typically future-focused. It involves worry, tension, a racing mind, and a sense of being on edge or braced for something. Depression tends to look more like low mood, emotional numbness, loss of motivation, fatigue, and disconnection from things that once mattered. Many people experience both at the same time, which is common and worth addressing as a connected pattern rather than two separate problems.

How does anxiety show up differently in men?

In men, anxiety often presents as irritability, tension, restless or disrupted sleep, difficulty switching off after work, overworking, or a sense of constant low-level pressure. It may not look like worry in the conventional sense, which is one reason it frequently goes unrecognized or untreated.

What is high-functioning anxiety or depression?

High-functioning anxiety or depression refers to a pattern where someone continues to perform and appear capable in daily life, at work, in relationships, in responsibilities, while internally experiencing significant emotional strain, exhaustion, or disconnection. It is often missed precisely because the person appears fine from the outside.

Do I need to be in crisis to start therapy for anxiety or depression?

No. You do not need to wait until things fall apart. Many people start therapy because they are tired of feeling stuck, flat, or unlike themselves and want to understand the pattern before it worsens. Early intervention is almost always more effective than waiting for a breaking point.

Can lifestyle factors like sleep and nutrition affect anxiety and depression?

Yes, significantly. Sleep disruption, blood sugar instability, chronic inflammation, and nutritional imbalances can all influence mood, stress tolerance, and emotional regulation. This is one reason the approach here considers physical health factors alongside the psychological work, not instead of it, but as a complement to it.

Nutrition & Wellness Services

Physical Health That Supports Your Mental Health

What are the nutrition and wellness services?

The wellness programs are non-therapy services focused on the physical systems that influence mental health and daily functioning, including energy, digestion, sleep, stress physiology, and nutrient status. They are available to clients across Canada, not limited to Newfoundland and Ontario like counselling services.

Who is a Certified Nutritional Practitioner (CNP)?

A Certified Nutritional Practitioner is a trained professional in holistic nutrition who has completed accredited education in nutritional science, stress physiology, digestion, and lifestyle medicine. The CNP designation is granted through the Institute of Holistic Nutrition (IHN) in Canada. It is distinct from a Registered Dietitian (RD), whose scope focuses primarily on clinical medical nutrition.

How is this different from seeing a dietitian?

Registered Dietitians typically focus on medical nutrition therapy within a clinical healthcare framework. Holistic nutrition practitioners focus on the broader lifestyle, physiological, and whole-person factors that influence wellbeing, including stress physiology, sleep, digestion, and nutrient optimization, with an emphasis on sustainable lifestyle change rather than medical dietary intervention.

Can nutrition really affect my mental health and mood?

Yes. Research consistently shows connections between gut health, nutrient status, sleep quality, and mental health outcomes. Deficiencies in nutrients such as magnesium, B vitamins, omega-3 fatty acids, and vitamin D have been associated with increased anxiety and depression symptoms. Blood sugar instability, chronic inflammation, and stress hormone dysregulation can all affect mood, focus, and emotional resilience.

Do I need to be in counselling to use the wellness programs?

No. The wellness programs can be used independently as standalone support or alongside counselling for a more integrated approach. Clients across Canada can access wellness services without being in therapy.

What does a wellness program involve?

Programs are structured across three progressive levels:

  • Level 1 — Integrative Nutrition Foundations (8 weeks): Stabilizing energy, improving sleep habits, supporting digestion, and reducing physiological stress.
  • Level 2 — Targeted Health Optimization (8–12 weeks): Deeper work on adrenal stress patterns, thyroid function, inflammation, and nutrient deficiencies.
  • Level 3 — Advanced Resilience: Long-term performance and lifestyle optimization.
Which program level should I start with?

Most people begin with Level 1 regardless of their goals. It establishes the foundational habits and physical stability that make deeper optimization effective. The free clarity call is a good way to confirm which level is the right starting point for your situation.

Insurance, Fees & Billing

Costs, Coverage, and Payment

How much does counselling cost?

Individual counselling sessions are $160 for 50 minutes. Couples counselling sessions are $195 for 50 minutes. Fees apply to virtual sessions for clients in Newfoundland and Labrador and Ontario.

Is counselling covered by insurance?

Many extended health benefit plans cover services provided by a Registered Social Worker (MSW, RSW). Coverage varies by plan and provider. It is recommended to confirm your mental health benefits before your first session. Receipts are provided automatically after each session for reimbursement purposes.

Do you offer direct billing?

Yes, where eligible. Direct billing is available through Telus eClaims and Medavie Blue Cross for participating insurance plans.

Do you accept NIHB coverage?

Yes. Evolution Counselling and Wellness is a registered provider with Qalipu First Nations and Nunatsiavut Government under the Non-Insured Health Benefits (NIHB) program. If you are covered under NIHB, contact the practice before booking to confirm eligibility and billing details.

What payment methods do you accept?

Payment is accepted by credit card, e-transfer, and NIHB. Payment is due at the time of the session.

Is there a sliding scale or reduced fee option?

If cost is a barrier, reach out directly to discuss your situation. The practice aims to make support as accessible as possible within its capacity.

Privacy & Confidentiality

Your Information Is Safe

Is everything I share in sessions confidential?

Yes. Confidentiality is a professional and ethical obligation. What you share in sessions remains private. Information is not disclosed to employers, family members, or anyone else without your written consent.

Are there any exceptions to confidentiality?

Yes. There are legal exceptions that apply to all regulated mental health practitioners in Canada. These include situations where there is an imminent risk of serious harm to yourself or another identifiable person, or where a court order requires disclosure. These exceptions are narrow and specific. They are not loopholes for general disclosure.

Is online counselling secure?

Yes. Sessions are conducted through secure, encrypted video platforms that meet Canadian privacy standards. Your information is not stored or shared through these platforms.

Will my employer know I am in therapy?

No. Your participation in therapy is entirely private. Employers are not informed, and records are not shared with workplaces. This applies to first responders and others in regulated occupations.